Romance
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Affairs Of The Heart Our Deepest Desires In A Relationship (vowels) 

Sometimes the attraction is more about the requirement of the moment than it is about the love and committment.

[_] 1: LEADER:  Originality, Leadership, Pioneer, Determination. Wants to be listened to.  Self-reliant, high expectations, ambitions, and drive.  Loved one must live up to standards of  cleverness

• Compatible: 3,4,5,8,44       Challenging: 1,2,6,7,9,11,22,33 

[_] 2: PARTNER:  Peace, Diplomat, Friendship, Cooperation, Musical.  Sensitive, sentimental. Needs encouragement of loved ones. Companion, best in a supportive role. 

• Compatible: 2,3,4,6,9,11,22,33       Challenging: 1,5,7,8,44   

[_] 3: VISIONARY:  Creative, Confident, Popular, Joy, Self-Expression. Charming companion. Optimistic & worry free.  Likes having friends and socializing.

• Compatible: 1,2,3,5,6,8,9,11,22,33       Challenging: 4,7,44            

[_] 4: BUILDER: Disciplined, Practical, Loyal, Stability, Hard-Worker.  “Down to Earth” Wants to be dependable, a rock of strength, an example of discipline for others.

• Compatible: 1,2,6,7,8,9,22,44       Challenging: 3,5,11,33,        

[_] 5: LIBERATOR:  Versatile, Spontaneous, Communicator.  Stimulated by the new/fascinating. Attractive, drawn to original thinkers/exciting personalities.

• Compatible: 1,3,9,22       Challenging: 2,4,5,6,7,8,11,33,44                   

[_] 6: COSMIC PARENT:  Responsible, Harmony, Advisor, Artistic, Balanced.  Forgiving: overlooks mistakes to continue relationship. artistic, healing, needs harmony in life.  

• Compatible: 2,3,4,6,8,9,11,22,33,44       Challenging: 1,5,7,                  

[_] 7:  PHILOSOPHER:  Individuality, Perfection, Deep-Thinker.  Intelligent, charming.  Loves deeper/stronger than reserved, manner reveals. Likes to be alone, quiet. 

• Compatible: 4,9,11       Challenging: 1,2,3,5,6,7,8,22,3344  

[_] 8: MANAGER:  Power, Independence, Organization, Religious. Wants loved one to be strong & equal to own ambitions. Warm but too busy to be romantic Dislikes weakness. 

• Compatible: 1,3,4,6,8,22,33,44       Challenging: 2,5,7,9,11 

[_] 9: HUMANITARIAN:  Courageous, Compassion, Romanticism, Spiritual.  Romantic enjoys the praise of loved ones/peers. Vision is usually on the crowds of people, not home. 

• Compatible:2,3,4,5,6,7,9,11,22,33       Challenging: 1,8,44 

• [ ] 1. Has high expectations and often disappointed when mate does not meet these expectations. Relationship will tend not to be a priority.  Focus of life together will be on careers or material gain, this can put relationships in the shadows.
• [ ] 2.    Committed & faithful to their partners & will expect the same in return.  Will have many admirers.  Mutual respect & appreciation are important in this relationship. 
• [ ] 3.  Ideal partner is attractive and stands out in a crowd. Excitement and romance is needed. If not present will look somewhere else to fullfill this desire. Naturally flirtatious and has many admirers. 
• [ ] 4. Long-term commitment is likely to be a priority.  Very protective of their partners and will be dependable and faithful.  Not prone to romance, demonstrates affection in other ways.  
• [ ] 5. Adventurous and romantic, wants a variety of experiences.  Will never be short of admirers.  Wary of commitment and responsibility and will be reluctant to settling down.  
• [ ] 6. Has much sex appeal.  Needs lots of affection & reassurance.  Likes to demonstrate their affection through making a fuss of their partner on special occassions only, not on a daily basis. Has a deep rooted fear of rejection. 
• [ ] 7. May move too fast.  Chooses partners who are gifted in practical matters.  Needs someone who will reciprocate and declares their love from time to time.
• [ ] 8. Has a fear of expressing emotions. Frightened of rejection and being hurt.  Focuses attention on ambitions early in life.  Has more energy and attention to devote to their partners once their other ambitions are realized.
• [ ] 9.  Has much sex appeal is very loving and affectionate. In love with the idea of being in love.  Thrives on passion and excitement in dealing with a chaotic love life. 

• Strengths:  Leadership, must demonstrate ideas.  Respect other’s freedom. Combination for power. Collaborate Life Purposes with intellect for leadership.
• Birthing Ideas:    Invention, pioneer, profitable projects. Essential Oils: basil, lavender, lime

• Strengths: Diplomat, understands, aware of needs.  Patience, & understanding of non-verbal communications. Living in harmony. Equal amounts of give/take helps eliminate problems.
• Birthing Ideas: Diplomacy service, alternative therapy, psychology, graphics.  Essential Oils: chamomile, eucalyptus, lavender

• Strengths: Motivating, energetic, optimistic Open communication is vital.  Share experiences, express joy without restraint. Fun/laughter adds to passionate vibration. Socializing. Speaking on behalf of community brings honor.
• Birthing Ideas: Public Relations, writing, performing arts, dancing.  Essential Oils: frankincense, lemon, orange

•  Strengths: Conservative, determined, commitment Implement ideas for joint objectives. Initiate plans for future, organize/produce. Follow schedules. Compassion/understanding/forgiveness strengthens.
• Birthing Ideas: Building, agriculture, management of production teams.  Essential Oils: geranium, jasmine, lavender

• Strengths: Outgoing, daring, unpredictable, questions. Adventuresome opportunities, new friends & new experiences. Order comes from planning, it gives a sense of greater confidence. Maintain balance through truthful communication, while facing changes
• Birthing Ideas: Through travel, projecting ideas, writings, sales. Essential Oils: lavender, marjoram, sandalwood

• Strengths: Supportive, responsible, comforting A relationship that focuses on learning to express love. Through negotiation & compromise, opening hearts to each other provides new perspectives on life. Use of the art of placement, creates healing environments: charming and comfortable.
• Birthing Ideas: Uplifting traditions, teaching, & counseling, raising community standards, beautification, fashion, music.  Essential Oils: cedarwood, lemon, rose

• Strengths: Charming, finding purpose, reserved. Spiritual development. Strengthen sensitivities, skills with discerning subtle energies. Living in harmony depends on expression of your emotions & thoughts “sensing” each other.
• Birthing Ideas: Higher consciousness. Research: working in fields of medicine involving metaphysical sciences. i.e. astrology, numerology, hypnotherapy, reading, discovery, writing. Imbalance. Essential Oils: clary sage, cypress, lavender

[_] 8c(hi) Abundance & Power: 17, 26,35,44,53,62,71,80,98

• Strengths: In charge, fact-finding, decision making. Being pulled in different directions. Maintain balance by finding a common ground. Money is not more important than the need to give expression to your souls. Good ideas about making money. Honesty & respectability influence projects to be worthy ones.  Fairness & trust keeps relationship grounded.
• Birthing Ideas: Decision making, high finances, insurance, matters of Supreme Justice, government,  ctator Essential Oils: ginger, lavender, rosewood

• Strengths: Courageous, leadership, dreamer, creative. Concerns of changing the world by giving to others & occasions to give of yourselves elevates this bond to higher spiritual planes. Broad-mindedness & curiously delving into the unknown provides hidden answers for humanitarian purposes. A vibration for levels of comprehension & interest in humanity’s problems. Exploration of new subjects, channels a vibration for healing. Take advantage of interests in art, music, acting, travel, foreign lands, people & languages.
• Birthing Ideas: Charitable projects, philanthropy, psychology, research projects, global healing.  Essential Oils: jasmine, lavender, lemongrass